I love people who break gender norms. I love femmy boys. I love butch ladies. I love people with unconventional moxie.
That being said, I have to declare… I am completely in love with Amy Sedaris. True story. The woman is amazing. I met her a little while back, and I was shaking and my hands were sweating like an idiot. I couldn’t have been more uncool.
But that’s me in my awkward glory. Amy, on the other hand, is a bold, strong, creative woman who can do just about anything. She is a version of the woman I strive to be. So I wanted to dedicate my last mandatory class blog entry to the magnificence of one of the women I love so, so much (no offense, mom).
The first exposure I had to Amy Sedaris was through Strangers with Candy, in which she played Jerri Blank, a 46-year-old former boozer, user, and loser who goes back to high school to pick up her life where she left off as a teenage runaway. I loved her raunchy and satirical humor, but I most loved her transformation from the gorgeous woman she naturally is into the horrendously unattractive Jerri. What kind of woman chooses to make herself publicly ugly when a woman’s worth is heavily defined in how attractive she is? A damn brave and beautiful one, in my opinion. I’ve dedicated Halloween costumes to Amy’s spirit, playing the ugly woman for just a single night, and the experience of being shunned or ignored because you’re unattractive is so intense that I can hardly fathom how she did it for so long as Jerri and continues to do it via different characters.
Her talent isn’t confined to comedic acting and screenwriting, she also has two books- I Like You: Hospitality Under the Influence and Simple Times: Crafts for Poor People, both of which are incredibly funny, have great project ideas, and feature photos of Amy as different characters (like this and this) that she’s created and whom I adore. Even her public image (of a hypersexual, un-PC, insensitive twit) is a bit of a creation, as her true personal self is a compassionate woman who makes strides to communicate with and entertain people with various disabilities, cares for house rabbits and advocates proper rabbit pet care, and has been celibate for years.
It seems that she flawlessly and seamlessly dwells in both her real and pretend shoes, and she does it entirely for herself. It is this sort of fearlessness that I love and admire so much about her.
So here’s to Amy, with love. Hopefully you will find the same awesomeness in her that I’ve found.